Wow. October just got better and sweeter than September. But it also came with heartbreak and pain. Nothing is ever perfect, but we can always find magic if we look for it. Rather than having a long intro, let’s just get into it.
Table of Contents
1.The Snapshot | 2.The Questions & Answers | 3.The Manifestations | 4.The Challenge
1. The Snapshot
Continuing where I left off in September, in Greece with a cute guy, I had a great month. New cities, new islands, many more laughs and inside jokes. We were adopted by a Greek family for nearly ten days and explored Corinth, then went on to the nearly deserted island of Anafi where we had entire beaches all to ourselves. Glimpses of a beautiful life came to me many times. But unfortunately, timing isn’t always in our favor, so I had to say goodbye to the person who became quite a lot to me. Pulling an all-nighter at the airport just to get in extra time together, then going our separate ways. Back in Amsterdam, I was met by my family and some friends to celebrate my Master’s graduation. Then another heartbreak of having to go back to the US for some time meant ending the month sleeping through trick-or-treaters in my parents’ home. This too shall pass.
At the beginning of the year, I made a Vision Board for 2026, but also for each month of the year. That way, my goals are smaller and seem more manageable. I’ve replaced my Pinterest pictures for October to my own pictures. Every single goal on the October Vision Board, done.
2. The Questions & Answers
What did I move closer to this month? I realized what I want in a relationship more now.
Where did I grow, even if results aren’t visible yet? I got closer to the woman my future partner needs.
What am I most proud of? I am proud of graduating with my Master’s.
What’s no longer serving me? I should let go of fantasies that other people don’t share with me.
What’s the next right step? I will secure my finances.
3. The Manifestations
Manifestation: I have my dream clients and make my dream money.
Action Plan: (1) Network more (2) Promote more (3) Exercise more
Limiting Beliefs to Let Go Of: (1) I am not good enough for a relationship (2) I will never find someone who chooses me (3) I cannot make enough money for my lifestyle
Daily Affirmation: I attract what’s meant for me
Visualizations: I see money in my account, I feel secure in my worth, I have hobbies that fulfill me
4. The Challenge
For the next 30 days, I challenge you to say what you feel. Choose one person whose relationship you cherish and want to nurture, and don’t hold back, filter, or elegantly pose the thoughts you want to share with them. Raw honesty. You might be surprised at what happens when you do this.
